Love is in the air.  Happy Valentine’s Day to you!  I hope you treat yourself to some amazing self care treats.  In the spirit of self love and body acceptance, this gift guide is meant to help people who are going through perimenopause and menopause.  It can be a dark journey (with over 30 different symptoms to combat) and I hope that these ideas can help you support people affected in your circle, or even help you cope.  Most of these I have not tried myself (I will say if I have) so please do some research before investing in any products or services.

How about a spa break?  Using elements ranging from acupressure to phytohormones and more to address the side effects of menopause and enable women to enjoy their wellbeing holistically. Spabreaks.com offer some of the best spa breaks for women in menopause.  Spa Breaks.com has 27 different listings that offer this service. Gift vouchers are available if you are not sure which would be best.  I know this treatment is on my list for 2024.

Earlier in the year, Charlotte Blackler launched the UK’s first food range specifically designed to incorporate plant oestrogens to bring women natural relief from unwanted symptoms of perimenopause and menopause. Eating a diet which contains high levels of plant oestrogens can help keep those fluctuating hormone levels of perimenopause and menopause in balance. Mena Pause shop offers subscription services and bundles of their products to support women by providing tasty grab-and-go options they could easily fit into a busy lifestyle.  If you are opposed to hormone replacement therapy, these foods might be of help.

You may recall that in 2022, I reviewed the Forth Perimenopause test and found it very insightful.  I was able to take my results (shown above) to my doctor and that prompted them to order a hormone blood test via the NHS.  While the at-home kits blood collection is not as good as one with a phlebotomist, I liked how the Forth test kits have you submit samples based on your menstrual cycle, rather than a random day/time like the NHS.  Your results will be included in a comprehensive hormone report.

One of the hardest things I have had over the last few years has been poor quality sleep.  For a while, I blamed Maple waking up several times a night (and then sleeping on the floor with her).  I tried pillow spray, scented candles, essential oils, and couldn’t find a way to improve my sleep.  While researching this gift guide, Earth’s Secret Sleep supplements came to my attention.  These are formulated to help perimenopausal women sleep easier.  For most women, menopause is when your oestrogen and progesterone levels fluctuate rapidly before eventually dropping. These hormones play a key role in regulating your energy levels.  This fluctuation leave you exhausted with low energy levels and can also lead to other symptoms that may interfere with your quality of life. Anxiety, depression, hot flushes, night sweats, and frequent urination can also disturb your sleep or keep you awake and only exacerbate your fatigue and dampen your mood.  Earth’s Secret Sleep Complex was formulated to provide the necessary rest that our bodies require to function correctly. Saffron, a rich Indian spice, and other sleep-inducing botanicals are used to improve the quality of your sleep. It is also combined with the power of tart cherry, passionflower, lavender, and chamomile.  This may be another product I have to try (although marathon training has helped ensure I have slept soundly over the last few months).

In the research I have done about weight gain and fitness training during menopause to feel fit and healthy again, the answer seems to be lifting heavy weights.  Therefore, working with a knowledgeable personal trainer can make a world of difference.  Invest in coaching with my friend Elle, a Menopausal Coach and personal trainer.  She recently completed a menopause coaching certification and now offers a three month coaching subscription which can make a great gift.

One of the hardest parts of perimenopause for me has been the incontinence. It took me a long time (and lots of pants) to find period pants that worked for my incontinence when at work and when exercising. Cheeky Wipes is a brand I only recently have been introduced to and yet to try.  They offer period pants, cloth pads, and incontinence products.  Pants and pads can help to manage leaks, floods and clots in a discreet and comfortable manner.  Whether you prefer pants or pads is a personal preference.  I prefer pants for incontinence and pads for my period.

These are just a few suggestions to help you (or a friend) through the change.  With so many symptoms, each person experiences something different and needs assistance in a different way.  I posted some of my coping mechanisms here and would love for you to leave a comment below with other products, services, and tips you have for surviving this transition period.